Obituary of Ann M. Stoehr

Queensbury: Ann M. (Carmelitano) Stoehr, 86, formerly of Hyde Park, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 4, 2021 at the Warren Center for Nursing & Rehabilitation. Born September 12, 1934 in Beacon, she was the daughter of the late Michael and Vita Vencenzo (Auletta) Carmelitano who passed away giving birth to her. Ann graduated from Arlington High School in 1952. “My purpose in life was to bring honor to my mother for her sacrifice of her own life that I might live. I tried to share love in everything I did. I loved my job and all the people that became my friends. Thanks to my family for a wonderful life. It was never dull; I had my ups and downs still all in all it was a wonderful life. I would like to thank my family and friends (long term and short term) for all the joy they put in my life. May God Bless.” She married Charles W. Stoehr, Jr. on November 22, 1958 in Danbury, CT. Ann was employed by IBM at both, the Poughkeepsie and Fishkill locations, where she was a senior manufacturing analyst working with the engineers developing software to run the manufacturing tools, the test system, plus data needed for reporting information. Ann devoted 33 years to the company before retiring in 1990. Upon retirement, the couple relocated to Queensbury in 1994 to enjoy the beauty of the area and to be closer to their family. Besides her parents and her beloved husband, Ann is predeceased by three brothers, Vito, Joseph, and Michael Carmelitano; two brother in laws, Jack and Ronald Stoehr; and three sister in laws, Cathleen and Bruno Stoehr, and Joan Carmelitano. Left to cherish her memory are her daughter, Robin Miller and her husband, Stephen of Queensbury; sons, Chuck Stoehr and his wife, Monica of Queensbury and Carl Stoehr and his wife, Roberta of Florida; grandchildren, Tiffany and Tim Maynard, Kym Miller, Sarah Stoehr, and Jeffrey and Joy Stoehr; great grandchildren, Sebastian and Lorelei Maynard, Belle and Noah Stoehr, and Chloe Schaeffer as well as several nieces and nephews. At Ann’s request there will be no calling hours scheduled. A memorial service to celebrate her life will be conducted privately at the convenience of her family. Expressions of sympathy may take form of donations in Ann’s name to CARE, P.O. Box 1870, Merrifield, VA 22116-9646; The USO, P.O. Box 96860, Washington D.C., 20077-7677; or Disabled American Veterans, P.O. Box 14301, Cincinnati, OH 45250-0301. Please visit www.alexanderfh.net for online guest book and condolences.